How to choose the perfect metal for your ring

There’s so much excitement when choosing an engagement ring – but while the spotlight is often on the diamond, the metal you choose for the band of the engagement ring is just as important.

Not only does it affect how the ring looks, but also how it feels to wear, how long it lasts, and even how much upkeep it might need.

In this blog, we’ll discuss some of the most popular engagement ring metals, what they’re best for, and how to choose the one that’s right for you or your partner.

What to think about before choosing a metal

Before falling in love with a particular metal, there are a few things to consider:

• Do you have sensitive skin? Some metals (like those containing nickel) can cause reactions
• What’s your lifestyle like? If you’re hands-on at work or love outdoor adventures, you’ll want something durable. (Our blog: How to choose an engagement ring to fit your lifestyle and work goes into more detail)
• How much are you looking to spend? Platinum, for example, is more expensive than gold
• Are you OK with a little maintenance? Some metals, like white gold, need occasional replating
• Do you want a cool tone or a warmer hue? Different metals flatter different skin tones and gemstone colours.

A closer look at some of the most popular engagement ring metals

Here’s a breakdown of the metals you’re most likely to come across when shopping for an engagement ring – along with their pros and cons.

Silver

Silver is a classic, affordable engagement ring choice that offers a bright, white shine similar to white gold or platinum.

• It’s a naturally soft metal, which means it’s often alloyed with other metals (like copper) to create sterling silver – the most common type used in jewellery
• Silver has a clean, timeless look and pairs beautifully with both diamonds and coloured gemstones
• It’s also a great option if you’re looking for something budget-friendly or vintage-inspired.

One thing to keep in mind: silver is more prone to tarnishing and scratching than other metals, so it needs regular cleaning and a bit of extra care. But with the right maintenance, it can still be a beautiful and meaningful choice for an engagement ring.

Platinum

Platinum is often seen as the ‘top tier’ of ring metals – and for good reason.

• It’s super durable, so it’ll stand the test of time
• It’s naturally white, so it doesn’t need plating, and it really makes diamonds pop
• It’s hypoallergenic, making it great for anyone with sensitive skin.

And while it does develop a patina over time – a soft, slightly brushed finish – some people love that.

The main downside? It’s more expensive than other options, and heavier too – but if you’re after something long-lasting and luxurious, it could be the right choice for you.

White gold

White gold offers a similar look to platinum, but with a friendlier price tag.

• It’s made by mixing yellow gold with white metals and then coating it in rhodium for that bright, shiny finish
• It’s lighter on the finger and looks fab with diamonds.

The catch? Over time, the rhodium wears off, and you’ll need to get it replated every couple of years to keep it looking bright. Also, double-check with your jeweller if it contains nickel, as that can cause irritation for some.

Read our blog: The difference between white gold and platinum.

Yellow gold

This is the classic – and for many, it never goes out of style.

• It’s available in 9ct, 14ct and 18ct gold, with 18ct being softer but richer in colour and value. (While 22ct and 24ct yellow gold is available, it is very soft, so is rarely found in jewellery)
• Works beautifully with coloured gemstones and vintage-style rings
• Has that warm, golden glow we often associate with traditional jewellery.

It can scratch more easily than some metals, but it’s easy to polish and a great choice for anyone after a timeless look.

Rose gold

Rose gold has a soft, pinky tone that has long been a popular, feminine choice for rings and other jewellery.

• It’s made by adding copper and silver metal alloys to gold, which gives it that lovely blush hue
• It’s strong, durable, and has a romantic, vintage-inspired feel
• Looks beautiful on most skin tones – and it's something a bit different!

One thing to note: because of the copper content, rose gold may not suit everyone with metal allergies. But if your skin gets along with it, it’s a gorgeous, distinctive option.

Further reading: Gold engagement rings.

Palladium

Palladium is often seen as a more durable, lightweight alternative to platinum:

• It’s naturally white and light
• It doesn’t need rhodium plating
• It’s also harder than white gold, meaning it’s more durable and better able to withstand daily wear and tear.

Because palladium is so lightweight, it can be harder for some jewellers to work with, meaning you may be limited in the choice of design.

Matching your metal to your gemstone

The metal you choose will help your gemstone shine – quite literally. For example:

• Platinum and white gold enhance the whiteness of diamonds
• Yellow gold gives a warm contrast, great for vintage stones or coloured gems
• Rose gold is stunning with softer hues like morganite, or even champagne diamonds.

Think about whether you’re going for a bold, classic, or romantic vibe – the metal can totally change the feel of your ring.

How your ring will wear over time

No precious metal stays pristine forever, but they all age a little differently:

• Silver is prone to tarnishing and scratches, so needs regular maintenance
• Platinum gets a soft patina but is easy to buff
• White gold needs occasional replating to stay bright
• Yellow and rose gold might show scratches but are also easy to polish.

A quick clean every now and again (a soft toothbrush and warm soapy water does the trick!) and an annual check-up at your jeweller will help to keep your engagement or wedding ring in great condition.

Don’t forget about insurance

The metal you choose isn’t just about looks – it also affects the value of your engagement ring. Platinum and higher carat golds are more expensive, so you’ll want to make sure your jewellery insurance reflects that.

If your ring gets lost or damaged, you’ll want to know you’re covered for the correct replacement value. Always include details like the metal type and carat in your insurance documents.

For tips on how to protect your jewellery properly, read our blog Safeguard your jewellery and the tips at the foot of this page: Infamous thefts

Which metal should you choose for your ring?

When it comes to engagement ring metals, there’s no ‘one-size-fits-all’ answer. It really comes down to your lifestyle, your budget, and your personal taste. Whether you love the timeless elegance of yellow gold or the modern, low-maintenance appeal of platinum, there’s a perfect metal out there for you.

As we discussed in our recent blog, one of the latest trends is for mixed metal rings – so if you cannot decide, that could be an answer!

Still unsure? Pop into a local jeweller and try a few on – it’s the best way to see what feels right. And once you’ve found the one, don’t forget to get it properly insured. After all, it’s not just an engagement ring – it’s a promise.